Navigating co-parenting post separation
Separation is never easy, especially when children are involved. Co-parenting comes with unique challenges, but with the right support, guidance, and resources, it is possible to build a cooperative and child-focused parenting relationship. If you are navigating co-parenting challenges, there are services available in Christchurch to help you move forward with confidence.
Learn to co-parent effectively
A successful co-parenting relationship starts with clear communication, mutual respect, and an understanding of family law. Participating in a co-parenting workshop can equip you with the tools to minimise conflict and keep your children’s well-being at the center of your decisions.
Resource: Parenting Through Separation Workshop – Presbyterian Support Upper South Island
What they do: This free workshop helps separated parents understand family law, improve communication, and create an effective co-parenting plan. The focus is on minimising conflict and ensuring the well-being of children.
How to access: Visit www.psuppersouth.org.nz and search “support for parents,” call 0800 477 874, or email ps@psusi.org.nz.
Access Mediation Services
Mediation can be an effective way to resolve disputes around care arrangements for your children. Rather than going through lengthy court processes, mediation provides a space where both parents can discuss their concerns and reach agreements that work for the entire family.
Resource: Fairway Resolution (Family Dispute Resolution)
What they do: Fairway Resolution offers expert guidance to help parents find agreements that suit their family’s unique needs. Their services are free or low-cost, making them accessible to those in need.
How to access: Learn more at www.fairwayresolution.com or call 0800 77 44 20.
Get Free Legal Advice and Advocacy
Understanding your legal rights and responsibilities as a co-parent is crucial. Accessing legal support can help you navigate legal documents, court processes, and mediation referrals with confidence.
Resource: Community Law Canterbury
What they do: Provides free legal advice, support with legal documents, court processes, and referrals to mediation services.
How to access: Community Law runs a weekly clinic at The Loft every Tuesday from 9:30 AM – 1:00 PM. To make an appointment, or find alternative clinic locations, call 03 366 6870.
Family Court Support
If your co-parenting situation requires Family Court involvement, having the right support can make the legal process less overwhelming. A Family Court Navigator can provide you with guidance, information, and emotional support throughout your journey.
Resource: Ministry of Justice Kaiārahi Family Court Navigator
What they do: Provides advice on court documentation, legal processes, and access to support services.
How to access: A Family Court Navigator is available at The Loft every Thursday from 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM. Call 0800 268 787 or email chkaiarahi@justice.govt.nz to make an appointment.
Support for Fathers
Fathers often face unique challenges when navigating separation and co-parenting. Whether you need advice, emotional support, or advocacy, specialised services exist to help dads stay connected with their children.
Resource: Kidz Need Dadz
What they do: Dedicated to supporting fathers through separation, providing advocacy, and strengthening father-child relationships.
How to access: Drop-in sessions are available at The Loft every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 9:00 AM – 12:00 PM. No appointment is needed, but there may be a short wait. Learn more about their services here.
The Loft Can Help
At The Loft, we understand that separation and co-parenting can be overwhelming. We are here to support you by offering:
Referrals to trusted mediation providers and family support organisations.
Assistance in accessing resources to help manage the stress of separation.
Personalised plans to guide you through co-parenting challenges with confidence.
Take the Next Step
You don’t have to navigate co-parenting challenges alone. Whether you need legal guidance, mediation support, or simply someone to help you explore your options, The Loft can connect you with the right services.
Reach out to us today—we’re here to help.
